The following tips will help you to build up a good family or relationship;
1.) Find a non-stress time to sit down and have a discussion with your partner. If you must stay home, make sure the kids are not present during the conversation.
2.) Write down the matters you have been thinking about beforehand so that you can stay on track during your discussion.
3.) Avoid personal attacks towards your spouse. Use “I” instead of “you” when speaking. Don’t be argumentative and state how you feel. Don’t point fingers, and don’t start a fight.
4.) Make a Plan. Discuss the situation and future plans with your spouse and check your progress often.
Remember the love you have for each other during the conversation, and listen also to what your partner has to say during the discussion. If it seems to be a bad time in general to talk about it, remember that there will be another opportunity to let your partner know how you feel. Let it go, and pick a better time in the future.