Sometimes ago before I was 30 years of age still a single. I used to go about my everyday activities without no one to say hi to before leaving my house. After work, I do little exercise. Time without number ladies worked my way and they are friendly, yet I never had a date with any of them.
What’s wrong with this picture?
I had left a painful relationship and so I believed true love does not exist anymore. This belief came true in my life.
I just didn’t think that someone out there is interested in me. This of course made it right.
Was it because I was unattractive? But I had a good look, clear skin, was fit and healthy, and even though I didn’t look like celebrities, I certainly wasn’t ugly.
Was it because I was financially insecure? No, I owned a small business, my salary was okay and I am confortable.
So, there was nothing physically causing my problem. It was all in my mind.
Hey, it was getting worse. After some counseling and reading lots of books, I decided to meet some new people. Then I didn’t find someone, guess what happened.
You see, deep down, I still had that limiting attitude, that I was fortunate to get anyone at all that wanted to be with me. The case is like sharks smelling blood in the water. Describing it as that I partnered up with a predator, would have been an understatement.
Was it her fault, yes BUT it was more my fault? I realized that I allowed it to happen in my mind first. I believed that this was the best I could achieve, I accepted that in my mind.
Eventually the boundaries became even my twisted logic broke, when she came back after being with another man, drunk and tried to stab me with a kitchen knife.
How could I have allow it to get that far? Easy, I didn’t understand that I had choices. When I realized that even being alone again was better than my present situation, I have to get out of that relationship.
Cutting a long story short, the whole issue was me having the wrong belief system.
It took some time, but eventually, I accepted that I was OK, and a lots of women could do far than worse to be in a relationship with me. I now understand that there are thousands of potential partners for me.
As soon as I started believing this, it was as though some flood gates had opened. I kept running into potential partners at every turn, and I was off the singles scene very quickly.
All I did differently was that I now accepted that there is a complete abundance in our universe. An abundance of suitable people. It was my choice, to accept or reject this fact. That made the difference. Now my physical actions could lead me to my true desires.
My external surroundings had not changed much, Physically I was the same (except getting a bit older), but my life had turned 180 degrees. Because I allowed it to. I let my mind accept that anything is possible, and nothing could stand in the way of a strong enough belief.
But only severe pain brought about this realization.
You can avoid the pain. Understand the above, you have many choices now. They will let you do things in more positive ways. Realize, that life will end up teaching you either way, let it be pleasant instead of painful lesson.
In conclusion, imagine it, believe it, and see what happens.
Remember, keep on loving.
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